The Common Trick Guys Use

This morning around 2 30am i received a phone call from a guy i dated from the summer. I refer to him as the teacher in one of my blogs. The teacher and I went on three dates but according to him we dated for "4 weeks" or "2 months." I honestly thought of it as 3 dates, nothing more and nothing less.

He told me he felt like a douschebag and a dick because he left me hanging. What happened was this: the teacher and I went on a date. I really cared about him, but then he started ignoring my phone calls and stopped talking to me. I was very sad about that. I didn't understand why he was ignoring me. Eventually, I deleted his number and moved on.

he contacted me telling me he was sorry and that he had been thinking about what he did the past few months. He said he wanted to kiss me and have sex with me, but because I am innocent and kind unlike most girls, he decided to leave me alone out of respect. He said he was sorry for not telling me and he didn't want me to feel "jaded." He said he wanted me to learn a positive experience from him and does want me to be more experienced in the future. he said I was "marriage material" but for someone else.

He asked if we could still be friends and he'd look out for me. I thought it was very thoughtful, but then the conversation got weird. He was asking about my virginity and if I had an orgasm yet. Of course I am still a virgin but I have yet to experience my first orgasm. The teacher claims that reason why I have not had one yet was because " you're not mentally there." The teacher said he could help me over the phone. Thats when I realized he had a hidden agenda. He wasn't genuinely trying to apologize, but to get into my pants. What an asshole. I told him I was feeling tired. He wanted me to stay up with him because he didn't want to be alone. I told him " if you were really my friend, you'd let me sleep and we'll talk another time." Guess what? He pulled the " I have needs" card on me. I told him " I don't have needs. I'm going to bed. Gnite."