He's Just Not That Into You

I feel like Drew Barrymore from He's Just Not That Into You. I'm so confused with all these different technologies that I'm not sure whether or not you are supposed to call, text, email, facebook, myspace, twitter, or even send a comment on their blog. The question I have is: what does a girl do?

I think chivalry is dead and sometimes it is up to the female to make the initiative, but I don't want to anymore. I'm tired of waiting by my phone and checking my facebook to see if that person has made the effort to contact me. I'm used to making the first move or even making the first call, but I'm tired. Honestly, I'm tired of making the first anything nowadays.

Moreover, I'm so confused on how I am supposed to act when interested in a male. I feel like there is so much pressure to be a certain way. My cousin calls me 'rare' because she says you can't find a girl like me, which is a good or bad thing. Mainly, a bad thing because guys don't got for girls like me...well, at least the ones I'm interested in.

I guess what I'm saying is that I need to stop checking out guys and focus on what is important, my family, education, etc. The guys I am interested in...aren't interested in me, and the guys i'm not interested in are interested in me (which to my dismay saddens me).
::sigh:: Ashley was right....how do I manage to stay single for such a long time.